Why High-Achieving Kids Feel Lost — Raising Humans, Not Resumes
Feb 21, 2026
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Raising Humans, Not Resumes
Over the last several months, I’ve noticed something that feels bigger than individual families.
In one room, twenty to thirty-year-old women told me they feel empty afte...
Before You Correct the Behavior, Ask: Is This Stress?
Feb 15, 2026
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At a recent parent workshop, I asked one volunteer to sit in a chair and represent a typical teen boy.
Then I asked seven parents to stand around him. Each was a given a sticky note with one of t...
After the Checklist: Why So Many Capable People Feel Stuck
Feb 08, 2026
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After the Checklist
I’m hearing something across generations.
Young adults say:
“I did everything right… and I feel stuck.”
“I don’t like the corporate job I worked so hard for.”
“I’m scared to pivo...
It’s Not Laziness. It’s Pressure
Feb 03, 2026
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One of the most common things I hear from capable, responsible adults is this:
“I don’t understand what’s wrong with me. I can do the dishes, take care of everyone else, keep the house running… but I...
Bigorexia in Boys: The Male Eating Disorder Often Missed
Jan 26, 2026
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When most people think about eating disorders, they may picture women or young girls restricting their food and weight. That image causes us to miss a growing number of boys and men who are struggling...
When Pressure Comes Home: Stress, Expectations, and Kids’ Wellbeing
Jan 18, 2026
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When Pressure Comes Home
Last week, I wrote about the visible history of pressure, the kind that once lived out loud in uniforms, weigh-ins, and unspoken expectations. Pressure that was framed as pro...
When Success Comes With Conditions: How Pressure Shapes Coping — Then and Now
Jan 11, 2026
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When Success Comes With Conditions: How Pressure Shapes Coping — Then and Now
When Prestige Also Meant Pressure
For decades, flight attendants were held to strict standards around appearance and beh...
Pressure Has a History (And It Didn’t Start With Social Media)
Jan 04, 2026
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Pressure Didn’t Start With Social Media
As we enter a new year, conversations about pressure tend ...
Checking It Twice: When Holiday & Parenting Checklists Overwhelm.....Try This
Dec 21, 2025
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Checking It Twice: When Holiday & Parenting Checklists Overwhelm.....Try This
Every holiday season, it shows up quietly.
A feeling parents often struggle to name but feel deeply:
“I’m behind.”
...
From Reacting to Reconnecting: Why I Help Parents Heal Family
Nov 27, 2025
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If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing your best as a parent but still seeing stress, conflict, or disconnection in your family, you’re not alone. I’ve been there, and I know how overwhelming it can fe...
The Hidden Rise of Eating Disorders in Boys and Young Men: Don’t Look Away
Nov 27, 2025
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What if I told you your son could be struggling silently, just like hers did?
The Hidden Rise of Eating Disorders in Boys and Young Men. When I went by the library to drop off flyers for my workshop ...
Parenting Doesn’t Come With a Guidebook… Until Now
Nov 27, 2025
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Parenting Doesn’t Come With a Guidebook… Until Now. Parenting is complicated. No one hands you a roadmap, and no one tells you the shortcuts or the pitfalls. After 21 years of teaching high school and...