It’s Not Laziness. It’s Pressure
Feb 03, 2026
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One of the most common things I hear from capable, responsible adults is this:
“I don’t understand what’s wrong with me. I can do the dishes, take care of everyone else, keep the house running… but I...
When Pressure Comes Home: Stress, Expectations, and Kids’ Wellbeing
Jan 18, 2026
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When Pressure Comes Home
Last week, I wrote about the visible history of pressure, the kind that once lived out loud in uniforms, weigh-ins, and unspoken expectations. Pressure that was framed as pro...
When Success Comes With Conditions: How Pressure Shapes Coping — Then and Now
Jan 11, 2026
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When Success Comes With Conditions: How Pressure Shapes Coping — Then and Now
When Prestige Also Meant Pressure
For decades, flight attendants were held to strict standards around appearance and beh...