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Beyond The Checklist: Why Redefining Success Matters
achievement culture
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teen mental health
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women mental health
May 12, 2026
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Beyond the Checklist:Why Redefining Success Matters
Lately, I’ve been noticing a pattern in the moms and women, ages teen through middle age, I work with. I also noti...
When Fear Takes Over: How One Parent Moved from Worst-Case Thinking to Grounded Support
anxious parenting
coping skills for parents
emotional regulation
family stress
parent mindset
parenting anxiety
resilience in parenting
worst-case thinking
Apr 25, 2026
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If your mind goes to worst-case scenarios when it comes to your child… this is for you.
Most parents struggle with what’s happening, but they struggle more with what might happen
There are moments...
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Siah S. Fried, MPH, CHES
Siah is a Parent & Family Wellness Coach specializing in eating disorder behaviors, stress, and unhealthy coping. She help families navigate overwhelming challenges, reduce stress, and build resilience so both your child and your whole family can thrive