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It’s Not Laziness. It’s Pressure
balanced families
differece between stress and pressure
feeling stuck from pressure
how to move forward
lack motivation
lazy
positive coping skills
pressure and coping
pressure vs stress
stuck
understanding pressure
understanding stress
unmotivated
why capable people feel stuck
Feb 03, 2026
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One of the most common things I hear from capable, responsible adults is this:
“I don’t understand what’s wrong with me. I can do the dishes, take care of everyone else, keep the house running… but I...
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Siah S. Fried, MPH, CHES
Siah is a Parent & Family Wellness Coach specializing in eating disorder behaviors, stress, and unhealthy coping. She help families navigate overwhelming challenges, reduce stress, and build resilience so both your child and your whole family can thrive